I lurk in the shadows
You’ll find me among the crowds
In buses and trains I dwell
Parks and streets are the places where I breathe
And when I see you
I lose my cool,
I lose my morals
And I lose myself
Your dress provokes me,
No matter if you are fully clothed or slightly loose
Your ignorance of my existence provokes me,
However hard you want to escape
Your unspoken words provoke me,
Whatever curses you want to hurl
All I want to do to you is because I can
All the movies I’ve seen growing up prove that I can
No, I’m not a male chauvinist
Though I want to practice control
They are the same thing, right?
But who cares?
I’ll hit you
I’ll push you
Then I’ll grope you
I only want to have some fun
And you too will surely enjoy
At least this is what I believe
And what I believe is true coz I’m a man
Be it Delhi or Shimla
Bangalore or Goa,
I will be there
Lurking somewhere in the background
Or even ahead of you
And what can you do at most?
Post comments on YouTube!
Say shit on Facebook
People forget in less than a week
And I?
I’ll find another you
And you?
You’ll find another me
Cause you and I, you know
We will find each other in someone,
Someone every day,
New Year or Holi,
Someone at all the places,
Someone every moment.
Molestation and harassment is something that happens everyday every fucking where and we cannot deny this. It angers all of us and we do what we can. But our efforts are never strong enough to stop this heinous crime and these ‘men’ (shame they even call themselves men) who are not just molesting someone but the mental scar they imprint on the victim is something which is not easy to erase. I don’t know if this will bring any sort of change or stop such crimes by even decimal of a percent but this is my way of expressing. This post can be easily forgotten but I know that what all has happened with the victims, that can never be forgotten by them and I beg that we too should not. Its high time now we realize that our patriarchy and sense of control is right in no way. Stop and think.
Well said and emoted from the perspective of the perpetrator.
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Thank you!
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Rightly said…
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Thank you!!
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So well written…m so glad u wrote it!
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anything to happen one has to start.. you started with your thoughts.. you will inspire more who are around you and the inspired will inspire more to come.. so let’s be positive.. you will make the change.. change the so called “MEN”..
All the best.. god bless you..
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Thank you! And maybe we can bring a change , even by a little, in the mentality of the people around us.
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true..
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Bravo. Amazing job done here. 👍
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Thanks!!
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This was amazing. Very well written. I love the way you portrayed the issue.
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Thank you! Glad you liked liked it.
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Very nice…
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Thanks!
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Powerful!
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Yes! That was needed.
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Thanks for writing this. Very well expressed.
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Thank you!!
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Very powerful expression.
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Thank you!
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A compelling message that needs to be brought to light. Thank you for this post!
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Well written ❤ ❤ great work dear x x
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Thanks!!
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You are most welcome 🙂 🙂 x x
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Reading for the first time I wondered about this and the lurking shadow. Perhaps there is an issue in the male psyche but to feel there is a right to grope is wrong. I found it disturbing that the incident in Bangalore in an article I read blamed it on western dress.
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There is definitely something wrong with the psyche of a molester. He blames it on the dress, but what is wrong is that he has a perverted mind. The feeling of supremacy just adds fuel to the fire.
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Difficult to understand but there seem to have been groups working together too such as incidents in Germany a year ago.
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Yes, the Germany incident was a similar one. These young men see public gathering as their chance to do whatever they want and are mostly in groups. What’s going on in their mind is difficult to understand.
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Perhaps it isn’t just a perverted instinct but a deliberate one with women as the target. After all men could be molested too but there could be a very different response.
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Yes!!
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A meaningful post. 👍 Thanks for writing.
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Pathetic truth it is..Good take on the issue
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Thanks a lot☺
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This is absolutely amazing. WOW. Damn..
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Thanks☺
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A very profound one Abhishek. It is so true, it happens all the time every where, at home and outside. We need to educate our boys too on this. I hope together we take positive steps to eradicate this mindset of some men.
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Something should be done and we can be the stepping stones for something the world always wanted to achieve but still is too far…safety and respect for all humans which includes freedom of women and ensuring their safety.
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Absolutely agree with you.
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I applaud your convictions and hope more men will stand up and take notice of what REAL men are really like — respectful, gentle, and compassionate. Bravo!
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Thank you so much. And I hope too.
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Very well written – so many mixed emotions reading this post…😶 no words to fully express….
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Some or the othr tym ur writings forces me to admire …ha ha
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Haha…thanks man☺
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Very well executed……
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Thank you!
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And you have expressed it in a very appropriate way…
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Thank you☺
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